is my husband cheating on me?

by yasmeen
(canada)

My husband has had a string of relationships, some flirtations some more serious so he has a habit. I gave him a last chance 2 years ago.

His job requires him to travel a lot and he usually has to travel with this woman who works with him.

I never suspected anything until one incident and I need to know if you would also suspect him if you were in my place.

He had traveled with this woman as usual on a weekday and he wanted to take us (me and our 2 kids) for the weekend to spend with him there so he came back during the weekend to pick us up.

When we reached the hotel he went directly to a room and tried to open the door with his key but the door didn't open. He kept insisting that it was his room and was wondering why the door wasn't opening.

He was obviously hassled and I couldn't understand why he was so worked up. In the mean time the bell boy went and got the duplicate key from the reception and opened the door. Lo and behold that woman was in the room. It wasn't his room!

Only after seeing her in that room he said oh! that is my room which was one room away. Should I be suspicious? What do you think? Why would he mistake her room to be his and also insist that it was his hotel room until he saw her inside the room. He was also very hassled and nervous during the whole episode.

He of course denies any wrong doing but he obviously wont tell me the truth.
Please tell me do you think. Is he cheating on me?

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Jan 07, 2011
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by: Anonymous

whenever a man's attitude change, something is not right. I caught my husband cheating because he started to change and I knew right away something was wrong. Follow your intuition. you could be wrong and at the same time don't have any doubt that you could be right. When you question him about something, watch his reaction. is he avoiding to talk about it or quickly getting upset. All of these are signs that he could be having an affair. so be careful!

Jan 05, 2011
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watch him
by: hannah

just keep watching him. and remember if it is true that hes cheeting its ok for second chances but no more than that because in the end your the one getting hurt...

Jan 05, 2011
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thankyou
by: yasmeen

I want to thank those who have taken time to post their comments.They have been really helpful for me because although I kind of knew it, I needed it to be confirmed by the view of a third party like you.Thankyou once again.

Jan 02, 2011
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you already know
by: Anonymous

YES AND HE HAS BEEN LEAVE HIS ASS AND TAKE YOUR KIDS YOU CAN DO BETTER BY YOURSELF HE IS PUTTING YOUR LIFE AT RISK WITH ALL THE STD'S OUT HERE.

Dec 29, 2010
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sad love
by: milcairis

yes he is cheating on you

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