Is this love?

by Kristen

Is this love?

Right now, me and my girl have been together for 10 months. We met on the internet and we have been camming a lot. I feel so happy when I talk to her, like she accepts me for me and all that. But we fight a lot over the phone and jealousy is a big thing in our relationship because of the distance.

I can't have girl friends because she thinks I like them or they'll disrespect her. I just want to know: is this love?

Even though we have our ups and downs, I miss her so much that I'd cry if we were on the edge of losing each other. She asked me to marry her and I said yes! I am seeing her in May of this year and I will be moving up there with her.

I just need some advise to find out if this is love. Don't get me wrong, I do love her with all my heart. She makes me feel complete and I just can't lose her. I've never felt this way before.

So please reply back to me with good advise not just the leave-her type of stuff. I am a 20 year old female and she is a 21 year old female we are lesbians. So please do not judge me or her. Thanks!


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Mar 03, 2010
Don't be Afraid
by: Anonymous

First of all, congratulations on getting engaged. And second, I think what the two of you have is very much love.

No relationship is perfect. What makes relationships work is the willingness to work out your problems together.

As long as the two of you can always talk it out, I think you'll be together for as long as the both of you want.

I wish you the best, just follow your heart, I've found it never leads you astray.

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