its obvious that i should be your girlfriend

by 16_loves_20
(canada)

I'm 15-years old and honestly, I have never been more confused in my life.

Recently, I've been talking to this guy on Facebook who goes to my school. He's two years older then me. It was all really innocent when I first messaged him about what time my school's championship hockey game was ... I knew he was on the team, so I just sent him a little messsage asking him what time the game was.

Ever since then, we've been talking a lot.
He went away for the weekend for a hockey tournament and literally, we texted each other all day every day.

I feel like he is someone I can really connect with and he understands me, and he could have easily seen me as just some stupid young girl, but he got to know me for me and I really like that about him.

The only problem is, he has a girlfriend. They have been dating for almost 2 years now, but he was willing to cheat on his girlfriend in order to be with me, so does this mean he doesn't love her? Is he just using me on the side, thinking he can keep his girlfriend and just use me whenever he wants? I don't know what to make of this situation. Does he really like me or does he just want me to be a homewrecker?

I don't know what to do. I talked to him about it the other night and he told me, he wasn't using me, but because I've been in a similar situation before, it's making me paranoid.

Any ideas?








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Dec 04, 2008
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This is why i hate girls
by: Anonymous

You're exactly the type of girl I hate. Get a life. If a guy has a girlfriend, you don't help him cheat. It's disrespectful not only to the other person, but to yourself as well. You should be ashamed.

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