Jealous of His Ex Wife

by Bernadette
(Philippines)

I met him online, he is older than me by 21 years. He is s divorced and has 3 kids. He told me that at first it was a marriage of convenience, then unexpectedly, he fell for her. They were together for 17 years but she cheated on him, that's the reason why they divorced.


When I met him, we became friends, then we fell in love with each other. I love him, but it's difficult for me to accept that I'm not the first wife, and he's not going to be a first time daddy with me.

I'm so jealous of his ex wife. I'm also afraid he still has feelings for her. I think he still thinks about her when he's with me. Lastly, I'm afraid he'll compare me with his ex. Please help me, I need advice. Thank you.

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Feb 04, 2010
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To: Jealous of his ex-wife!
by: Holly

I know that it's easier said than done; but try not to be jealous! Remember that SHE cheated on him -- he could NEVER trust her again! Also, remember the saying, "what I fear, I create." Don't let your jealousy of his ex, create a problem, that isn't there. Instead of investing your time in needless worry; invest your time working on improving your relationship with HIM! Go for walks together -- remember to keep the lines of communication open. Most of all, don't let him know that you're jealous, because men love happy, confident women! Best Wishes to you, in your relationship with him! Be Happy -- he's with YOU, not HER!

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