Jealous of His Ex Wife

by Bernadette
(Philippines)

I met him online, he is older than me by 21 years. He is s divorced and has 3 kids. He told me that at first it was a marriage of convenience, then unexpectedly, he fell for her. They were together for 17 years but she cheated on him, that's the reason why they divorced.

When I met him, we became friends, then we fell in love with each other. I love him, but it's difficult for me to accept that I'm not the first wife, and he's not going to be a first time daddy with me.

I'm so jealous of his ex wife. I'm also afraid he still has feelings for her. I think he still thinks about her when he's with me. Lastly, I'm afraid he'll compare me with his ex. Please help me, I need advice. Thank you.

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