Just recently...

by Julier

...I have come to this page because I was looking for sayings & quotations which I could text to my husband who is working abroad right now.

I've been a wife for 10 years now & with 3 kids. Just recently, I have discovered that my husband is having an emotional affair with another overseas worker, but they are from different countries. I never thought that "the thing" would happen, not even in my wildest dreams.

It happened through a networking site, Facebook. He requested me to make him an account, & I did. I thought it was for the purpose of communicating with me & the family. For him to see our photos, events, & to be updated about his children.

Months passed, and our communication was not as good as before. Still, I didn't have any idea of any wrongdoing.

Just recently, when me & my children vacationed in my province, someone sent me a message saying "hi! u have good looking kids." I replied "who r u?". The 2nd time, I was asked "are u (his name)'s wife?

Then I got suspicious and since I was the one who made my husband's FB account, I checked his e-mail first.

Oh! I was shocked. I don't know how to describe the feeling but it was like I died. I read messages in his inbox & followed the comment threads on FB. I sent a message to the girl for one last time with all the bad words I know. Then,she blocked me. When I confronted my husband about it, he denied it.. but later said that it was all a joke. He was just looking for someone he could talk to because I don't text him as often as he wants.

They never met in person, it was just all on net. We talked & I have forgiven him. There are still times that I just cry because my head can't shut out the things I have read. Their conversations on the net still linger in my mind.

We're okay now with constant communication & trying to do the things we used to do before, & the way we used to be. But even though I've given him back my trust, I'm still a wife and mother who is just protecting her family. I'm wiser now.

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May 31, 2015
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by: Kayla Brian

You can call it rude but you cant call it love. It is flirt and considered as a bad habits. She will not stay and leaves you. If you really love her make her feel comfortable with you. You can read and research but if you cant write well, try essaygeek essay service. Thanks.

Mar 18, 2012
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by: Anonymous

God is Great!, He always make a way to save a sacred marriage....I'm so affected about your personal story because I've had that experience,too.

May 28, 2011
by: Anonymous

I like your post.

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