...I have come to this page because I was looking for sayings & quotations which I could text to my husband who is working abroad right now.
I've been a wife for 10 years now & with 3 kids. Just recently, I have discovered that my husband is having an emotional affair with another overseas worker, but they are from different countries. I never thought that "the thing" would happen, not even in my wildest dreams.
It happened through a networking site, Facebook. He requested me to make him an account, & I did. I thought it was for the purpose of communicating with me & the family. For him to see our photos, events, & to be updated about his children.
Months passed, and our communication was not as good as before. Still, I didn't have any idea of any wrongdoing.
Just recently, when me & my children vacationed in my province, someone sent me a message saying "hi! u have good looking kids." I replied "who r u?". The 2nd time, I was asked "are u (his name)'s wife?
Then I got suspicious and since I was the one who made my husband's FB account, I checked his e-mail first.
Oh! I was shocked. I don't know how to describe the feeling but it was like I died. I read messages in his inbox & followed the comment threads on FB. I sent a message to the girl for one last time with all the bad words I know. Then,she blocked me. When I confronted my husband about it, he denied it.. but later said that it was all a joke. He was just looking for someone he could talk to because I don't text him as often as he wants.
They never met in person, it was just all on net. We talked & I have forgiven him. There are still times that I just cry because my head can't shut out the things I have read. Their conversations on the net still linger in my mind.
We're okay now with constant communication & trying to do the things we used to do before, & the way we used to be. But even though I've given him back my trust, I'm still a wife and mother who is just protecting her family. I'm wiser now.