Lack of Trust

by Bruce
(California)

Hello, my girlfriend of nearly four years has been breaking up with me, four times in the last month, then getting back together. The core of this issue is that she doesn't trust me completely.


About 2 years ago, I had two ex girlfriends claim that I was cheating on her with them, which was false. From that point on, my girlfriend has not trusted me, no matter what I did or said.

We initially worked things out until recently. It seemed like she exploded with emotions and said that she could not go on anymore with fully trusting me. She also divulged that she witnessed her father being unfaithful to her mother at a young age, which she thinks affected her ability to truly trust me.

Our longest separation lasted about three weeks. She contacted me and said she was miserable without me, depressed and wanted me to be in her life. We got back together for about a week. She then broke it off claiming she still had trust issues, but still loved me very much and really didn't know what to do. What do I do?


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May 12, 2010
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Lack Of Trust
by: Penny

What she experienced/saw her mother go through had a bad mental effect on her, she can't trust, and now it seems she may need professional help.

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