Lies... can 20 months be saved.

by Ronnie Britz
(South Africa)

I met my current girlfriend about 1 year and 9 months ago, basically, fell in love and started dating up until today. Everything went well until about two weeks ago when one of her lady friends came to visit, I agreed. (Thought it would be nice)

We partied Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Monday was quiet and then again, partying through Tuesday and Wednesday...

Now, Wednesday is where the problem came in. Me and my girlfriend decided to go home a bit earlier than the night before. I drop my girlfriend off and about 10 min after that, her friend came to fetch her again. They went to go and pick up a few other friends and went on with the partying.

The next morning she called me saying that she was on her way to work, which she was not, she was at her friend's aunt's place the whole day long.

I only found out about this two days after when her mother told me that she never went to work because she was too tired.

What am I to do? Should I tell her to hit the road or should I try to patch things up?

Please help ... ronnie.britz@property24.com