My comment for you: I have been going through the same thing. I have two kids by him, well really one and we have been dating since high school of 2004. We were engaged to get married this year and both of us just made some huge mistakes that can be worked out, but he just refuses and would rather move on with his life. I said that to say this, if this is the relationship that you want for your life believe and have FAITH! PRAY and ask God to give him a change of heart to understand you and I promise you the day that you put all your trust in God and let everything go that man has to offer, you will see a change in your lost love. The advice that was given to me was to give him his space for a while to recuperate, but still call him as though y'all were together, but never asking him anything about the relationship. A man's emotions are totally different from a woman's. Men think that they are allowed to do something to us and it's ok but when the shoe is on the other foot then they are not able to handle the situation. But just remember if that is the relationship, the you want for your life, just have faith and God will give you the desires of your heart. In the meantime, while all of this is going on let this be a time for yourself to get yourself together and girl get you some ME time going on!
hey whitney, it's weird because i am going through the exact same situation. i told the guy i am in love with everything i have felt and he didn't care. he told me it was over then started texting me saying he misses me and can never get over me and that everything reminds him of me ... he is pretty much screwing with my head. when i try to see him to talk he blows me off and pretends he's not upset.
i have no real advice for you. i just want to let you know you're not alone. it feels good in a weird way to know that i'm not alone, although it is such a shitty position to be in. all i can say is try your best to see what's out there. i went on a date and it meant nothing to me, but it was a start. i feel as though if he wants to be with you, he will and if he doesn't you're better than that ... just try to live. i don't know if this helps ... probably not, but love is the best and worse thing to be in.
Dec 18, 2007 Rating
CONFUSED by: Anonymous
He said he was in love with me then he broke my heart. We tried to work it out, but now he's breaking my heart again. He wasn't my friend ... the way he was all up on another girl. What should I do? Let him go ... I can't because I love him. Help!
