I did talk to him about how I felt and that's when we broke up. I did see changes, how he was always tired and that's why I said I felt like a burden in his life, him trying to balance work and me looked hard for him.
I did talk to him 2 weeks ago and he said he needed to get things straight and that I hadn't lost him.
I haven't heard from him ever since. What I always wonder, what is there to work on his life? like he's just working to pay off his bills. What's so hard about balancing things out? Is he going to do the same thing with his next girlfriend?
I'm so confused.
Jul 17, 2010 Rating
Love Don't Pay The Bills by: Penny
He did not have to come if he didn't want to, no one held a guy to this head.
Did you talk to him about how you felt? Do you think you were sensing some underlying changes in him?
Jul 16, 2010 Rating
Re by: Anonymous
We didn't live together, in fact we lived 20 minutes away from each other. During the last month that we were together, the three times I saw him during that month, he paid for everything but small things. Before, we used to take turns.
It wouldn't bother me when he used to see me on his days off, it just felt like he wasn't visiting because he wanted to, but rather to do me a favor.
Jul 16, 2010 Rating
Love Don't Pay The Bills by: Penny
I do have three questions...(1) Did the two of you live together? (2) Did you work and contribute half to the household expenses? (3) If you lived apart, did you offer or help pay for things you two did as a couple?
All I'm getting is he had to work in order to pay the bills. I don't understand why it would bother you for him to spend his off days/time with you.
