Love Isn't Supposed to Hurt

by Monica Rowe
(Louisville, Ky)

Sometimes the only way you can actually care about someone is to let go. Not because you want them to go away, but sometimes that is the best decision for yourself and sometimes for you both.


Love is not supposed to hurt! Love is unselfish, loyal and to have a sincere concern for others. When it comes very hard and you have to make it happen, that is not love.

Love sometimes can be painful if it is not flowing properly. This usually happens when one has love and the other doesn't. Sometimes when you put in all the work and feel drained, that is when it is one sided. People think the harder they try, that will make someone love them.

Sometimes love requires letting go and letting that person have room to grow and stop ourselves from going crazy trying to prove how much they love us.

If I am hurting inside and everything seems "crazy," that is not love. That is usually me trying to make things a certain way that they are not meant to be. If it comes easy and with peace of mind then just maybe that is love.

Love is not based on jealousy or control. Love is allowing a person to be who they are, go where the want and do what they want, knowing deep in your heart that all is well.

If you get a knot in your throat and a pain in your stomach that is not love and that is a sign that something is wrong. That is why loving yourself is very important. Who wants to feel pain? Most want to not feel pain. Others in life that is all they know and they mistake pain for love. Once again, love is not supposed to hurt.

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excellent NEW
by: Tia Robinson

On my personally experience I would say that love is the best among all other feelings that has immense abilities you make you rise up or fall down and hit hard. It believe it is mostly depended on factors like luck, good timing and our actions too. Jurassic Sharp Cheddar

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by: Viola Davison

On my personally experience I would say that love is the best among all other feelings that has immense abilities you make you rise up or fall down and hit hard. It believe it is mostly depended on factors like luck, good timing and our actions too. Jurassic Sharp Cheddar

May 19, 2015
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This just made my night... NEW
by: IG: 89rudeboi_

This is what I've been telling my girlfriend, for the past two days. Love is NOT supposed to hurt, nor is it supposed to be controlled.

May 05, 2015
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Love Isn't Supposed to Hurt NEW
by: Jessica David

Where there is attraction, there must be some repellent forces too. Pain, tears and sadness all feelings are part of everyone's love story. So it is not abnormal. Just learn to forget things and go on. If you have wasted time in love matters, you will get better option of essays from ukessayservice essay writing services.

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thanks NEW
by: John

Yeah, you have said it. It was just like I was reading my mind as a text. This was the exact thoughts I had when I broke up with my girlfriend a few months back. I never wanted to leave her, but it was the best decision we had made. Antigua apparel

Oct 31, 2010
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Absolutely right!!
by: Shooshoo

once it becomes pain, it is not love...

Feb 16, 2009
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Wasting Your Time
by: Anonymous

No chance! I am an educated male, good looking, and experienced. The age difference is a barrier that can never be broken ... please fall in love for the right reasons.

Regards,
me

Feb 16, 2009
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LOVE is our Live
by: AMOR

When love is miserable, find real love. Real love is not supposed to hurt. When you love someone truly, you will be content. Respect your feelings.

Real love comes from our eyes, mind and heart. You feel content and peaceful. I'm alone now but happy that I let go of my pretend love. I was married for security and he loved me but I was not in love. Now someone can love him more than I could.

So I found my way to go out of his life. Now I am alone and I have the time to find my real love too. Although the age difference is about 13 years, I know he loves me.

Some say that age doesn't matter. I am 39, while he is 26. If someday, he leaves me because I am too old for him, I will let him go because I love him. When you love a person, you want him to be happy.

I love him and I am happy and contented and finally in my real feelings, I find that I am free ... spiritually, emotionally, physically.

Feb 16, 2009
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Lost four words
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That tells my story.

Feb 15, 2009
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Painful love
by: Anonymous

Love was never meant to painful. But, oftentimes it is because most people are insecure. Though I loved (and still love) my ex, the love was full of pain and heartache. He tried so hard to control which was not natural, and of course there would be resistance. I couldn't be "myself". Had to be, and I tried to be who he wanted me to be. I was determined not to fail in marriage. After 21 yrs, I let him go. I am a happy, healthy, content, positive woman. Completely different person from who I was. Never even realized the extent of my misery till that relationship/marriage ended.

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