love marrige against caste system

Hi Laura

My name is Ajit and i have love relationship with Maratha Caste girl and as per Indian caste structure i am belong to Buddhist caste.We both Love each other a lot.But when we think about our marriage some problems are getting created.I don't have any problem to my beloved's caste but she has. It doesn't mean that she is not ready to marry with me but she afraid of about the effects of our marriage on her parents mind.She also don't want to forget me also.She thinks that i have to change my caste for the sake of her parents wish.can i do that? if it is possible i will do any think for her.And one more thing is that her cousin cached ourselves yesterday while wandering directly on bike. So again she is torching by his cousin saying that non relationship with me.he don't know about my caste but my beloved told him that i am belong to her caste.so in that case my personal opinion is that if she is getting that kind of trouble which is harmful to her,i have to leave her for her better life.But again my mind tells me that i have to be with her.even her parents are ready to marry her with someone this year. so please suggest me what exactly i have to do right now?Please suggest me in three to four questions mostly focusing like

1.will it be OK if i leave to her for her better life
2.Shall i have to get marred with registered
3.Shall i have to give permission to her for getting married to someone where her parents want.
4.Shall i have to sacrifice my love for her better life and future.

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