Love or Not?

by danielle
(canada)

I had this boyfriend once and all he could talk about to his friends and even when he knew that i was within ear shot was how hot others guys' girls were and how lucky they were to have them. All my friends told me that I should break it off with this guy. I mean of course I knew that I should but I just couldn't stand the fact that we had once been so inseparable and now... well, now we had nothing.

I'm sure there we plenty of times that he would have dumped me in the blink of an eye but I'm sure he knew that since he had cheated and dumped and broken the hearts of so many girls that it would take a while to get a new one.

However, there was this one girl who I had a gym class with. She started out as well a nerd but as soon as she got those "hip" red streaks in her hair and she was into selling smokes, getting drunk and things of that sort. What I didn't know was that my boyfriend was also into this kind of thing. But since he didn't come from the richest family, he had to bum smokes off other people and hardly ever had his own.

So back to the girl with the red streaks. She also liked my boyfriend and of course he dumped me and went with her because she was "loaded" as he would say and we had nothing and she was much better than me. Hwever, soon that girl realized that he was nothing but a jerk and was using her.

So guess who he came back to?

Yeah thats right, me. However in the time this took, this man brought me flowers and he was the sweetest, most caring guy you could ever want. He told me that he would wait how ever long it took for me to be ready to get together.

Of course my ex was furious about this, but I think I was just scared that whole time because I was never in a really good relationship and I thought that if I ended this one then that was it and I would never be good enough to get another boyfriend.

For all you girls out there: don't worry, you are all beautiful and don't you ever think that you aren't good enough to have a guy who treats you right because you are!


- Danielle


Be the woman your man adores and never wants to leave simply by being who you are