Love With Cousin

by mikw
(USA)

hi. i am falling in love with my cousin (my mom's brother's daughter). i am 16 and she is 18. we've come close to doing it a couple of times. when we were watching a movie, i touched her body parts: lips, neck, waist, back, her butt, even when she was washing dishes, i kissed on her neck from behind and she allowed me to do that. when we meet, we hug each other, but when we are with family, we don't hug. when we stand, she holds my hand and then i start to touch her hips and waist. and she allows me. i send her e-cards like "i miss u" and "will u be my friend" and she replied to my message and sent me "i miss u." i want it and i love her. how can i explain to her my feelings? on facebook, we sent each other love notes. i never told her that i love her. should i? please help!! I REALLY LOVE HER!!

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Dec 02, 2014
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im in love with my cousin NEW
by: Anonymous

My family knows about me and my cousin you need to think real hard if this is the type of relationship you want and going forward some of your family members might not speak to you any more and yes there is a a chance of having a disabled child but its not as big of chance as other people say if you two want to be together talk about all the things that can happen then if you want to be together go for it

Nov 24, 2008
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That is NOT cute!
by: Simone

Um, first of all, that's just nasty!!! That is no excuse! You talking about your mom's brother's daughter. That's your first cousin, fool! That is a definite no no. And I can say that is NOT love, that is infatuation or lust. That's just ridiculous. I hope the family does find out so y'all will end up being ridiculed.

May 28, 2008
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Cousin Love
by: Anonymous

OK, I had the same experience with my Cousin when I was 16 and she was 14. She used to sit and flash her panties at me constantly, and rub my foot with hers under the table while we were eating. She was running me crazy. One day I caught her in the barn, and asked her why she was teasing me. She replied that she thought I was real cute, etc. I told her that if she did not stop, I was going to make her follow through and have sex with me. She said OK, and we immediately went to the hayloft and I entered her. She was not a virgin. Next summer, she did not come with her parents, she went to some camp. I have not seen her in years.

Apr 20, 2008
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love.
by: Anonymous

You can't help who you fall in love with. It's an emotion that you have no control over. Sometimes, things just aren't meant to work out and you have to get over them. With her being your cousin, there's no possible way for this to work. You need to let go of the situation and realize there will be girls out there exactly like her that you won't be related to. You just have to open your eyes and see them.

Feb 19, 2008
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so sweet
by: Anonymous

what if i your family finds out?!

Feb 01, 2008
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In Love with Cousin
by: Laura Love

It sounds to me like you're confusing love with lust. That said, there's a reason there is a law (at least in the U.S.) which forbids incestuous relationships because the offspring from such unions are more prone to genetic anomalies. I mean technically, this is considered incest and I can't condone it. There are too many fish in the sea for you to pursue your cousin.

You don't mention whether you're first or second cousins, but either way, I think you should do some research, talk about all the implications of pursuing such a relationship (how will your family members take it, what if she gets pregnant, etc.), cool your heels a bit and think hard about what you're getting into.

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