Love/Hate Relationship

by Jasmine.


He was the love of my life. Things were going great until our relationship hit 3 months. Then things got rocky, but we got through it.


Five months later, it got worse. We broke up 4 times in 2 weeks. He told me that he didn't love me and didn't want to be with me anymore.

But when we broke up, he wanted me more than ever. So my "not thinking self" took him back every time.

One day, I found out that he had told another girl that he wanted to be with her and that he loved and missed her. This happened just two days before our 9 month anniversary.


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We broke up for one week but talked as if we were still together. He asked me back out and said he was truly sorry.

I took him back and now, I wonder if I made the right decision because I hate him more than anything for what he did and for breaking my heart 4 times. But then again I love him more than anything.

What do I do?

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Jul 24, 2015
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Stay calm. NEW
by: Jordan Melton

Hello Jasmin! Thanks for sharing your honest story with us. Often it happens, the relationship impacts more on the girls. Sometimes it makes them go crazy but one thing always need to remember that "Everything happens for a reason". As you saying he laid you and broke your heart for 4 time and you hate him the most but still you guys are together, I just cannot understand it. If you really hate him then just leave else be in a strong bonding. I think you should consult a coach. Relationship Coach. He/she may help you to take the right decision. As per me just, stay calm for some days and observe what is going on. Whether he has changed or still cheating around you. Hope it would help you. Thank you.

Mar 16, 2015
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Sep 12, 2011
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love sucks!
by: Anonymous

ugh!! i know exactly what you're going through. I'm going through it myself. we love them sooo much that we try to make excuses for their behavior. It's so sad cause deep inside we know the truth. We are in denial. I consider myself a strong woman, but in this situation I hate myself for putting up with this over and over. It's just a broken record. But i know one day when I'm ready to let go. I will. the sooner the better. good luck!

Feb 28, 2011
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3 years
by: Jenna

Seriously, I've been doing this for 3 years. Email me if you're still going through this and need to talk. It'd be nice to have someone to talk to who's going through the same thing.

xoxjenna-michellexox@hotmail.com

Sep 08, 2010
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intelligent and beautiful
by: Anonymous

Love hate relationships are tough, and our emotions takes over our logical self. I know it hurts, but if you truly love yourself, dump him.

He's already proved that he's unstable, doesn't respect your commitment or feelings and he's a cheater. Don't settle for a relationship laced with self-esteem lowering betrayals and abandonment.

You're obviously an intelligent beautiful girl with a loving and warm heart. There's a great guy out there who will love you the way you deserve to be loved.

Jan 18, 2010
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Dump Him
by: Anonymous

Just dump him. He is not worth your time or love. If he was, he would not have broken you and would have come back to fix it.

Sure, something seems fishy to me and I would not trust it anymore. I think I might know what I'm talking about. I'm 20 years old and have been hurt too many time and now learned my lesson very well.

Sep 01, 2009
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Love and Respect
by: Anonymous

It is always important to note that we don't thrive in love alone. Love requires a lot of respect. Respecting and loving yourself first before you love other people is essential before starting a relationship.

A person who truly loves you is a person who gives a lot of importance to respect. If a person has done something wrong, judge his/her state of remorse about doing the act.

Remember, a love lost might just be the opportunity to find the true one.


Sep 01, 2009
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Love and Respect
by: Anonymous

It is always important to note that we don't thrive in love alone.Love comprises alot of respect.Respecting and loving yourself first before you can love other people is very essential before starting a relationship.

A person who truly loves you is one person who gives a lot of importance to respect.If a person has done something wrong,judge his/her state of remorse in doing the act.

remeber,one love lost might be an opportunity to find the true one.


Aug 30, 2009
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men can't live with them
by: Anonymous

Men suck....I know what you mean. The same thing happened to me and is still happening to me. The guy says he is sorry and you know in your mind that he isn't but in your heart, you are hoping that he is...well sometimes I'm sure what a guy says is true, but if he's done it once, he will probably do it again.

Jul 29, 2009
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About Your Love/Hate Relationship
by: Anonymous

Even though you have a love/hate relationship, it seems to me that you both love each other.

Still, I think you should break up. I know it might be hard but if you are going to be with someone, that person should know how to treat you and not break up with you almost every week.

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