If he's still a mommy's boy, then he won't grow up. Don't stay with a guy who will push you away like that. Let him go. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
Oct 08, 2009 Rating
Boyfriend with Controlling Mother by: Anonymous
First and for most, I hope that you are doing well. One thing you should know is that you are not the only one facing these problems. There are men out there still under "mummy's care" which is not good for a man or for the relationship.
My advise to you is talk to him and make him understand how you feel about it. If it is something he is willing to take into consideration, then well and good, but if he doesn't, and you still want to be with him, then you have to accommodate it.
Above all, pray to God and ask for his SOS HELP before you say something bad about his mom to his face or you might end up losing him for good.
I wish you all the best.
Oct 06, 2009 Rating
Shoes Made For Walking by: Penny
Joyce,
Years ago, I went with a man who told me as I was cooking for him, that his mother didn't do what I was doing the way I did it and I turned to face him and said, "Do I look like your mother?"
I can't have a man who tells ME what his mother does or says because I'm my own person and do things the way I do them.
It's his, your boyfriend's, fault not his mother'' that his life is being ruined. He does not have to take mother's advice. He needs to learn how to think for himself and not be told how, what, where, who and why by mommie dearest.
I'm with you, it's time to put your shoes on and walk because he will always listen to his mommie like he's a little boy and you want a man who can think for himself and have some backbone!
