My Ex is Back

by Jamie Miller

This is me and Coy my boyfriend a.k.a. Lon

This is me and Coy my boyfriend a.k.a. Lon

I love my boyfriend of 11 months, but my ex has come back and I just remember the times we had together. He dumped me long before I met my boyfriend.

I dont know what to do. I care about and love them both and I won't leave my boyfriend. I love him but I want to be with them both.

My ex tells me he only dumped me then because he was young and I was too and he was stupid or so he says. When he tells me that he loves me, I cry because it hurts me that I can't say it back. We were together for a summer, the best one of my life, then we broke up and a year later I met my new boyfriend and we have been together for almost a year. I can't imagine being without him.

Please help me. I don't know what to do. I feel like my life is like "The Notebook," like I'm Ally in the movie because I'm with Lon and I still love Noah, but I can't imagine leaving Lon.

What should I do? I am so confused.

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Aug 30, 2012
who do u love the most
by: dusty

who do u love the most go with what your heart tells u to do cause when you walk up to the one you love you'll know who the right one is when it hits you cause you'll feel all fluffy inside, your eyes will twinkle and your heart will beat just like the first time you met.

Aug 08, 2012
Dont go back you can only go fwd <3
by: Anonymous

Dont go back with the ex if he was stupid then he is stupid now if your happy with the other kid stay with him i just had the same thing happen to me and i went back to my ex he was a total jerk so stay happy dont leave him good luck! C:

Dec 18, 2009
Not Worth It
by: Anonymous

Don't feed into your ex. He knows you are happy and he's just now realizing how bad he misses you and regrets breaking up with you. Don't leave your current boyfriend for someone who felt they could do better than you. It's not worth it, trust me.

Dec 16, 2009
You Can't Your Have Cake And Eat It Too
by: Penny

I don't mean to rain on your parade, but it seems to me that your old boyfriend has you jumping how, when and where he wants you to and you seem to enjoy it.

Think about how you felt when he dumped you back then, so what if he was young and what he said, because it may be a lie. How did you feel when he dumped you?

Your new boyfriend does not deserve to be
treated like someone who was there when your old boyfriend dumped you and now that he's back you go running into his arms.

It seems to me you are doing the same thing to your new boyfriend that you old boyfriend did to you back then, so think about your new boyfriends feelings and not your feelings for your old boyfriend.

You can't have your cake and eat it too!

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