Need Relationship Advice

I am 18 years old and I just started college and I met this girl who I instantly was just so attracted to. We both hit it off great. Had a great conversation. My heart was racing. She was so beautiful.

Now it's been two months and she has had a boyfriend for a long time. But yet we are attracted to each other, we hang out all the time, and we connect in a way to where you know it's right.

I want to be with her so bad. I would do anything. And it's kinda getting to her head, not knowing who she wants to be with.

Note: she isn't able to speak to her boyfriend until August of next year.

I feel so bad though because she is falling for me and I am falling for her, yet she is in love with someone else and she told me she doesn't want to break up with him. She wants to be with him. Yet she wants to still hang out with me.

People always ask us if we are a couple. And we just look at each other, rarely say anything.

So my question is should I back off, so she doesn't get to attached and then has to break one of us guy's hearts? Or should I continue to hang out with her and just go with the flow?

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Oct 25, 2009
Simple relationship advice
by: Anonymous

Just hang out with her always and soon she will be yours.

Oct 24, 2009
Relationship Question
by: Penny

My understanding from what you wrote is she wants to hang out with you, but she wants to be with him come August of next year.

If you want to just hang out with her and hope that she will choose you that's your choice.

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