"I am my own Woman." Good call Elly. I am 18 and have also never been kissed. I know I you are older than me so it is hard to compare, but I think it's better that you haven't. Because I think a kiss is a very intimate expression of yourself that should only be shared with someone very deserving, and not thrown away on just anyone. And with the whole deal of finding your soul-mate, I think that until you can live without a guy, you will not be able to live with one. You have to make sure that if you want a boyfriend, you want one for the right reasons. And this is different for every person. I have had my heart broken just recently which made me realise that I was placing importance in the wrong place. It showed me that I do not need a guy to complete me. Just remember never to take your value and worth from having a boyfriend, or from guys in general. I get annoyed with girls who date just for the sake of it. Because isn't the ultimate purpose of dating to find the person you want to marry? So I think that every person you date should be someone you could see yourself one day marrying, or you're wasting your time. Also, you are only 20, most people get married these days in their mid 20s, so you've still got a few years left to find someone you want to spend the rest of your life with!