No romance

by Sandy
(Lakewood, CO. USA)

I have 4 children but only 1 lives with me the other 3 are grown. My boyfriend has 4 of his own and I have been taking the mother role with them. I have a full time job and when I come home, I do all the cleaning, cooking, laundry, and I also take his kids to their functions in the afternoon.

I pack lunches for all the kids and us for work. My day starts at 5 am every morning. I'm not complaining, but when it comes down to sex, I don't get any luck. It gets very frustrating when he doesn't get excited with me anymore.

I feel like maybe he loves me as a person who can help him with his kids and house but I don't think he loves me as his partner. I feel like I'm being used.

There are times that I just want to pack up and leave but I can't because I so love him, but it's getting old and I'm getting very sexually frustrated (and my vibrator just doesn't do it anymore). What should I do?

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