Not Ready for a Relationship?

by Amie
(Calgary, Alberta, Canada)

I really like this guy, but he has a girlfriend.

He's been flirting with me and saying that he likes me for a while now.

I am not sure what to do anymore. I wonder if he's not ready for a relationship with me. I mean if he did like me enough I would think that he would try and do something about it, like he said he would a while ago. But I don't think that will happen and it's really killing me inside.

What do you think I should do? Should I just try and forget about him or wait? Should I do something about it? And if so, what should I do?
I am just really confused and I'm not sure what to do anymore. Do you think you could help me?

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Sep 08, 2013
Dont believe!!
by: Arby Pusong Ligaw

Im a guy and i know what guys do. He likes you but not for making a relationship with you. He is just cheating you. It's his way to get you by saying he loves you. Usually we boys do that. we make girls fall and when it happens, we take the opportunity.

Sep 08, 2011
help is here
by: Anonymous

Been there done that.. Its no fun.. The guy is using u for booty call.. If he didn't break up with her from day one, then hes not going to break up with her period I know.. even if he says he is going, blah blah blah.. Trust me he's not.. If u want to get him back.. Tell the girlfriend.. trust me u will get ur revenge.. May not be friends anymore but if not i would move on before it gets to late.. cuz this is what you call cheating on his girlfriend.. Ya if he cheats on her.. hes going to cheat on u.. So either take my advice or just be well lets say his doormat.. have fun.

Apr 03, 2011
Is he worth it?
by: Anonymous

I mean, if he has a girlfriend and he knows you like him and he says he has feelings for you. Then why is he still in a relationship with another girl. He may like the girl more and have you as a second option (once he breaks up with his girlfriend). Even if it's hard to let go, it's better not showing him you like him. Besides, he has a girlfriend already and he likes you at the same time. If you guys do go out, what makes you think he wont to the same to you?

All the best in your decision.

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