Online Dating Questions

by Bernard
(Adelaide)

I have developed a friendship with someone via the internet, she has given me her home phone and email and we have developed a good rapport. I am new to the online dating game and have been out of it a long time.


My online dating questions are:

1. How often is too often to call her or should I wait till she rings.

2. What are the right things to say, I do not want to be erotic but have a little fun and make us laugh.

3. The internet is very intrusive and would it be better to turn MSN off so she cannot see that I am online, so MSN won't buzz us and things can be more private?

Thank you
Bernard

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Feb 26, 2009
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Real Love
by: Darlene C Daily

This is a poem that I wrote back in May 2008


Real Love

What is love? Love can come in many ways.
Love can mean many things.
But what is love one may ask.
Real love there is nothing like it anywhere.

Real love comes unconditionally, it's not a toy
and it's real.
Real love is as fine as pure, fine gold.

Love you can find a dime a dozen.
Real love is not fake!

I never knew what real love was until I met the man of my life.

The love I have for my children is so different. Rhat love is a mother's love for her children a love of that kind can never be replaced.

What is real love? it is you and me.


By,
Darlene C Daily
5-30-2008

Feb 26, 2009
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Don't Wait To Long !
by: Darlene C Daily

When you meet someone and you exchange phone numbers that's a start right there because your saying you want to get to know her.

I think it's good if you take that first step in calling her. Nothing good comes from setting back and trying to see if she will call first because sometimes it doesn't always happen that way.

Once you two start your talking to each other then you will have more of a connection with each other. She needs to know you're a nice person
and as time goes on, you both will learn each other's likes and dislikes. The more you learn about each other the happier you will become but don't rush into anything.

Take each day as it comes and you will be glad you did.
I wish you both luck! May God be with you both.

Sincerity,
Darlene C Daily.

Feb 25, 2009
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Online Dating
by: Samantha

Yes ... Online Dating IS different. If she gave you her number...you should call her...text her...whatever. See how she is doing and ask her questions you are curious about. Don't hold back...go for it! But never be too uncomfortable for her or unusual. You want to take it slow and keep it at a rate where you know she will be comfortable. Don't let her hold back...you want to meet this girl right? it seems like you two have a pretty even, good connection.

God bless you!!

Good Luck to both of you!!

Feb 25, 2009
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Never To Soon !
by: Anonymous

It's never to soon to call friend because then your letting her know she is on your mind.

Calling her will let her know you're wanting to talk to her.

Then if you were to wait for her to call you may cause her to think you didn't like her.

I'm a woman and I know these things.

You call her ask how she is doing and how was her day because then you're allowing her to see that you really do like her. And from there things will start falling into place.

Always keep in mind if it's meant to be it will and if nothing comes of it, then it wasn't meant to be. All you can do is take one day at a time. Never rush into anything. You want your relationship to last.

Good luck to both of you.

Sincerity,
Darlene C Daily



Feb 24, 2009
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Online Dating
by: Denise

If you like this woman, then why not let her know it? Yes, the online dating thing is different, but if she was brave enough to give you her phone number, then obviously she feels the same connection with you. Don't wait for her to call you because she might be thinking the same thing and then you will never talk to the woman who "could be the one."

Good Luck to you and have fun with it.

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