Please Help Me!
by Lisa Pollock
Dr. Laura Love
Okay, i have two questions for you.. I will start with the least important and ask you the most important one after.. I have been occasionally back and forth between two guys lately..
Question # 1 ) I have had feelings for this guy named Kevin since beginning of summer.. We were seeing each other back in the beginning of June.. However at the end of the month, because of his previous relationships, he decided he was not quite ready. Got cold feet, and ran away.
We saw each other for the first time in 2 months approximately a few weeks ago. The problem is he works out of town, he calls, texts, everything, when he is away. When he is in the city, he constantly bails on me to make plans with "the boys." However, when he is away, he tells me how much he misses me, and if I move away from home it would kill him. Yes, we have had sex, and the sex was great! However much I like him, I just dont think he feels the same.
Question #2) After Kevin and I had stopped seeing each other, I met this guy named Jay. We hit things off from the start. Like we pretty much knew right from the beginning that we were going to be together. However, things got rocky when I found out my ex roommate's best friend is his roommate. To say the least, I don't get along with the ex roomie or her friends.
When I left town one weekend, he got ridiculously jealous. I ended up hanging out with a few of my male friends and it upset him. However, it did not upset him enough that he wanted to make me his "girlfriend." He wants to single status.
We stopped seeing each other, and in that time, I was seeing Kevin. Last night, we met up at a bar. One thing led to another, and we stayed up the entire night, talking, making love, having fun.. Just to see whether or not that chemistry is still there.500 tips to make you a better lover