Problems in Relationships

by J.T.
(Sparks)

I have problems in relationships that do not seem to change no matter who I'm with. At this point in my life, I've been married three times. My third marriage is failing and I realized that it's ending in the exact same way as the previous two. I don't want to get divorced. This time, I want to hang in there and do the work to save my relationship. I've lived long enough to figure out that finding someone new is not going to solve the problem.


I have taken a hard look at myself and realize that if I don't change, I'll just keep repeating the same mistakes. Can you please point me to a resource that will help me break free of these old patterns and save my marriage?

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Jan 30, 2009
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Problems in Relationships
by: Laura Love

Hi J.T.,

Yours is one of the most insightful questions on love and problems in relationships I have ever read. You're right, most people blame their partner and think that their partner is the cause of all their problems.

The truth is that a relationship is a dynamic and when you learn to change how you act, your partner will automatically change how he responds.

Finding a new partner does not solve the problem, but changing yourself will transform your world and your relationships.

You asked for a good resource. please read
The Us Factor review?a review of a relationship program that I went through and just posted on my site. The program will help you learn how to break free of the patterns that create hurt, disappointment, resentment and boredom in a relationship or marriage. It will show you how to get back to the love that caused you to want to be with your partner in the first place. Rather than telling you more about the program in this post, just click on the link above and read my review.

Thanks for being so honest.

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