Sometimes we think the other person loves us, but that's not true. He/she only plays with our emotions and with our love. I believe we can change that type of person with sincere and patient love.
Sep 25, 2009 Rating
Been where you are! by: Anonymous
I agree with what Penny said because I found that in the relationship I just ended, this was actually the case. He may say he's playing but him just voicing the comment out loud says a lot!
He seems to be insecure for one reason or another. It could be a past relationship or it very possibly could be a case of "low self-esteem."
I know that I, myself, was once like him and it wasn't because of anything anyone else did, it was my own image and confidence within myself that was lacking.
Just continue being yourself because if this truly is a real issue with him, it really won't matter what you do, he will still feel the same way.
Sep 25, 2009 Rating
His Insecurity by: Penny
Most times when there has been an issue in a past relationship, the person will carry the result from it into the next relationship causing him/her to view another/others the same as the last which will cause problems. The only thing you can do is be true and try not to let his insecurity get to you.
