Prove My Love

by Shay
(Nuna)

I just met this guy and we've been dating for awhile now. My problem is that I don't think he trusts me! I just don't understand why he thinks this guy and that guy is my boyfriend. He claims he's just playing with me, but I actually take this seriously.


It's like he was hurt before by someone else cheating on him and then he seems to put that person's mistakes on me. I tell him all the time that I'm not that girl and I would never hurt him, that I will love him better, do him better, and treat him better.

*I just would like to know what I can do to prove to him that I really want to be with him and only him and that I won't hurt him and that he can trust me.

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Oct 31, 2009
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Love or Toying with Your Emotions
by: Anonymous

Sometimes we think the other person loves us, but that's not true. He/she only plays with our emotions and with our love. I believe we can change that type of person with sincere and patient love.

Sep 25, 2009
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Been where you are!
by: Anonymous

I agree with what Penny said because I found that in the relationship I just ended, this was actually the case. He may say he's playing but him just voicing the comment out loud says a lot!

He seems to be insecure for one reason or another. It could be a past relationship or it very possibly could be a case of "low self-esteem."

I know that I, myself, was once like him and it wasn't because of anything anyone else did, it was my own image and confidence within myself that was lacking.

Just continue being yourself because if this truly is a real issue with him, it really won't matter what you do, he will still feel the same way.

Sep 25, 2009
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His Insecurity
by: Penny

Most times when there has been an issue in a past relationship, the person will carry the result from it into the next relationship causing him/her to view another/others the same as the last which will cause problems. The only thing you can do is be true and try not to let his insecurity get to you.

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