Recently broken heart

I have known this guy for 3-3.5 years. We used to be really good friends, then we went out and that lasted for 5 months ... not very long. We only saw each other on Wednesdays and Sundays, sometimes in between if we were on trips with our youth group.

About 13 months later, he started flirting with me and finally asked me to go out with him again. I said yes, hoping he had changed, and since we used to talk to each other every night on the phone, and he used to ask me how I was doing.

He called me 6 days after I said yes to him the second time, and said "I don't think this is going to work out. People know I'm going out with you and aren't liking me because of it. I just wanted to tell you that ... bye ..." without me being able to say anything at all.

I just saw him yesterday (we broke up on Tuesday, yesterday was Wednesday) and he walked over to me. I thought he came to apologize because I was crying and maybe he had seen it, but he didn't come over to apologize.

He asked me if one of my friends liked one of his friends. I see him walking around with this girl, not sure if they are friends or not (she is 3 grades below him and in middle school she's in 7th grade.) He's in high school. He's in 10th grade. I am one grade below him and in high school which would be 9th grade, but I am home schooled.)

He buys her stuff, walks around and goes outside with her in the pitch dark sitting on the curb. They come in and act like nothing happened, he gives her a piece of paper during worship, and they disappeared together after worship. He saw me drop to my knees and cry my eyes out during worship but he said nothing. He doesn't care.....and I love him so much.

Please help me.

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