Relationship Problem

by Morgan

Relationship Problem


I have a question about my relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 and a half years. We talk about marriage and a future together but there are just times when I'm not feeling as if he feels the same way.

I love him with all of my heart and cannot picture my life without him, but I just do not want to fuss anymore. He's not a big talker so trying to talk about stuff is difficult and often makes things worse because I get aggravated easily at his unwillingness to talk.

Do you have any suggestions or feedback for me that can help us do better? Breaking up is not an option for me or him either I think, but I don't want to go on feeling the way that I do at times.

Are my expectations too high? Thank you!

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May 04, 2010
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Breaking Up is Not an Option
by: Cher

"Breaking up is not an option:" what kind of nonsense is that? There are always options...maybe not the ones you would want to choose from but there are always choices.

Face it. You like to talk and your partner doesn't...either you learn to live with it or you move on.

I have tons of friends like that and I love to talk..that's why they are my friends and not my boyfriend.

This kind of relationship can work, but if you are upset about it now?chances are?it will become a major upset later on. Spell it out for him and see what you come up with, then take it from there. But that's who he is I am pretty sure.

Good luck.

May 01, 2010
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The Red Flag is Waving!
by: Anonymous

Communication is crucial for a successful relationship. Seek counseling before you marry him. There are no miracles at the alter. What you take to the alter is was you walk away with.

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