Relationship problems...i really need your advice.

by Jaylynn
(Laui)

Hello my name is Jaylynn and my boyfriend Cory and i have been together a year or so and we met through a friend. When we met we fell in love and it was so strong. We did everything together and there seemed like nothing could go wrong. We share a lot of things in common and i love that we can both do things together that we love. We have got in depth about marriage and moving in with each other...and children. But along the way i feel that our relationship is changing.

He recently got a new job and he works a lot and i really miss him a lot when were not together. But here lately, when i try to talk to him about something that is bothering me, he gets mad and walks away and doesnt want to hear it. When i go to use his phone or to take a picture with it; he gets so mad that i have it and takes it from me. This made me think that he was hiding something from me and i dont like to feel like i am being lied to.

I really try to do everything that i can to make him happy. I love him a lot. When he wants to do something with his friends or something he says that he isnt going to change his plans. But then whenever i want to do something; it is no or he says that he is so tired from work. But i feel that a relationship should be 50/50.

Whenever I do something for him i would like him to respect the fact that i am doing it for him and make sure i realize that i appreciate it. But all he says is thank you but its with a sarcastic tone. I really dont know what to do. I want to believe that he still loves me. I want this to last and i do want to marry him some day but i need your help, i need to know what to do or how to change or what to say to him to make this better. Plaease help me.

Thank you ~ Jaylynn