How I Saved My Marriage from the Brink of Divorce without Counseling or Therapy

(and how YOU and YOUR SPOUSE can do the same and Be Happy and Fall In Love AGAIN)

When my husband of ten years came to me and demanded a divorce, I was hurt. After all, we'd been through a lot together and we had two children.

Sure, we'd been arguing a lot lately and we hadn't made love in six months, but I didn't think that things were THAT bad.

Me and my husband taking off on our second honeymoon ... Happy At Last!

Instead of getting mad at him, I asked him this question:

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"How can you throw away our marriage without trying to work things out?"

That stopped him in his tracks.

I went on: "Look, I know that more than 50% of all marriages end in divorce, but are you going to give up on us so easily and let our family become just another sad statistic?"

He shook his head.

I knew then that just like me, he wanted to stay together.

But I also knew we were going to have to work at it.

(Like most married couples, we were fighting about money. We'd made the mistake of letting our kids come between us. We couldn't talk to each other about important issues without one of us ending up mad or hurt. Instead of enjoying our marriage, we were starting to retreat into our own separate corners. Our marriage was like a boxing match, each of us ready to take a jab at the other in his or her own defense.)

In short, instead of it being "us against the world," it was me and him against each other.

My husband put his hand on mine and asked me what I thought we should do.

Click here to learn what I did to save my marriage

We briefly considered couples therapy and relationship counseling, but it's expensive, plus there are no guarantees. One of my friends went to marital therapy for over a year. She and her husband spent thousands of dollars and their marriage still ended in divorce.

I wanted to SAVE my marriage. But I didn't want to go broke doing it.

Then I remembered a friend of mine who had used one of those DVD-learning programs that you can use at home. I thought back to the last time I saw her and her husband together at a party and remembered how happy they looked. They were holding hands and kept looking into each others' eyes, like they had some private secret.

Later, when I asked her what had changed, she said they had gone through this DVD program and the exercises in it had healed the anger in their relationship and made her and her husband feel close again. Instead of fighting, they were talking to each other again. It was like a heavy weight had been lifted off her marriage.

She said it took work. But it was worth it.

That convinced me. I went online and bought the program. It was great because they sent it to me on a 30-day free trial basis. All I had to pay were the shipping costs. Plus they sent me this report called The Butterfly Secret which has worked wonders for our sex life.

When we received the course, we sat down and listened to it together and something magic was born. Probably because we were both willing to do what necessary to save our marriage and fix what had been broken in our relationship for years.

Yes, we had to work on things. The biggest change we made was how we talked to each other, but I have to tell you that it was thrilling to start to fall in love again with the man I married. The closer we were, the happier my husband became. It was like all the baggage that we'd accumulated during our marriage was gone.

Now, we joke about how we almost got divorced. In fact, that's a photo of us above that was taken by my mother just before we left to go on our second honeymoon. (My mom offered to watch the kids.)

This is what I did to save my marriage. If I can do it, you can too.

Practiced simple techniques with my husband.
Stopped letting our kids and issues with money interfere with our relationship.
Rediscovered the love and passion that was hidden beneath the layers of anger.
Learned how to communicate better (This even helped my husband, the man-of-few-words, learn how to open up.)
With the techniques, I was finally able to forgive my husband for the affair he had six years earlier. (This was my biggest hurdle.)

I can't say enough about this program. But don't take my word for it, the 30-day trial allows you to check it out for yourself:

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Of course, in order for the program to work for you, you have to be willing to work at it. But don't worry if you have a spouse who is unwilling. One person can work on a relationship because as you start to change your behavior, this will create a change in your spouse or partner.

Beyond this, I truly believe that most people want their marriages to work. People would much rather stay together, but they just don't know how to get past all the layers of hurt and anger.

This program will teach you how to fix your relationship and give you the skills to make your marriage last. The dream you had when you first got married: of growing old together, getting to know and love each other more deeply over your lifetime, is now within your grasp.

You just need to learn some simple skills.

Your marriage is worth it!

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