Scared to Get Into Relationship

by summer

I met this guy in freshman year...

met him through a group of friends when I got to high school.. We became extremely close and things got heated to the point where he admitted that he liked me.

He was too scared to get into a relationship because according to him "someone always gets hurt no matter what."

I was heartbroken.. We stopped talking for a couple months until
two years and one girlfriend later, he and I become closer than ever.

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We tell each other everything and anything with no shame.. knowing his faults and weaknesses have only made me like him even more... I'm scared that if i tell him how i feel, everything we have will be lost.

This really sucks. Any advice or comments please? Thanks.

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Jul 10, 2015
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Mar 16, 2015
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by: tania

If you do not tell him how you feel about him then you will lose him forever to some other girl. It is always best to tell him when you have the chance. I had a girl whom I liked. But she never told me that she loves me. When I fell into another relationship she soon tells me everything. for more information

Oct 09, 2009
by: Tanya

I know what you are going through because I'm going though the same thing. I've been best friends with this guy for almost 3 years. I actually met him on Myspace.

At the time, I was engaged, and he realized that he was in love with me the night I told him that I was engaged. So after me and my ex broke up, he sang the song called "Amazed" by Lonestar. It's a country song, not sure if you've heard it or not, but he sang that song on karaoke in front of the whole bar.

I was scared of being in a relationship because my ex made me scared. Also I'm scared of being with a guy who is in love with me because I'm not sure if he's playing with my heart or what, or if it will ruin the friendship. So i talked to a lot of people about it, and this is the advice they gave me: "You'll never know until you try, you have to take chances."

To that I replied "But I'm scared that it'll ruin the friendship, and that's the last thing on earth that I want to happen." So when I'm ready, I'll take the chance.

And you should too. It's scary to risk it, but who knows? This guy could be the guy for you, you could end up marrying him, it's very possible. My parents were best friends before they got married, and my mom was scared just like you and me, and look what happened: they ended up getting married and having 4 kids together. Good luck with everything.
Take care, Hon.

Aug 10, 2009
How You Feel
by: aTangg[[;

You should tell him how you feel, even if he doesn't feel the same way. You're going to let your feelings out and who knows, he might even like you back. Remember though that some people are just scared sometimes.

Just tell him how you feel.

Jul 29, 2009
Be brave
by: Anonymous

The fact that you to are willing to share your faults and weaknesses with one another, gives you the right to share how you feel about him. He should understand because you two are close. There's no way it hasn't crossed his mind to take things to the next level.

Jul 28, 2009
scared of relationship
by: Anonymous

i think you should tell him that he may even feel the same way about you but is too scared to tell you.

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