Settle for Second Best

by Riajura
(Namibia)

Hi Laura


I love the father of my son but he does not seem to love me back. There is a man who loves me and would like to marry me soon. I don't love the man who loves me like I love the father of my son. My question is should I let go off the man who does not love me and settle with the one I don't love? Will I grow to love him with time?


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Jul 15, 2010
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Settle for Second Best
by: Darryl

Don't settle for second best, but how do you know he does not love you?

My own opinion would be to show him that you love him. Do something that he loves which you haven't done in a very long time. Thereafter, sit down and tell him that you would love to have a conversation with him. Tell him how you feel about him, cry if you want to, but pour your heart out.

If he feels nothing towards you, leaves, or tells you that he does not feel the same, then by all means, move on. Do NOT waste your time on him.

I'm going through some rough seas myself, but the above is what I would want from my girlfriend.

hope this helps.
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