Should a Girl Ask Out a Guy

by Savannah Marie
(Wisconsin)

I really like this guy at my school. He is cute and such a sweetheart. He stares at me sometimes, with a smile on his face. Both his friends and mine tell me to ask him out, but I honestly think that he doesn't have feelings for me at all.

And I always thought that the guy should ask out the girl.

If I did ask him out, and he rejected me, I would
feel like such a moron!

I don't know what to do about this situation. My friends are telling me to go for it and so is my heart, but it's just that my mind is all cluttered with tons of thoughts and worries.

What should I do? I need help, please!



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Oct 23, 2009
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WAIT
by: Penny

You wrote... "I didn't think that this guy had feelings for me and I always thought the guy should ask the girl."

I'm a true believer in following your first mind and I still like to be approached by the male because that way I know HE wants me.

Today many women are taking the lead, but I still want a man to be a man and think he will respect you more in the long run, if you respect yourself and allow him to lead in this regard until you get to know each other better.

Oct 23, 2009
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Go For It
by: Anonymous

I think that you should definitely go for it because even though he might reject you, you will have taken the chance. Maybe he does like you but he is afraid that you might reject him too, so if none of you two took the chance and asked the other one out, I think that you might miss your chance of being together and you might regret it forever.

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