Sister in Love with My Husband's Cousin

I have sister who is 24 years old. My sister is in love with my husband's cousin. I knew this when I saw her emails (I found some emails from him). The problem is that he is married with a 9-year old son. My sister is well-educated and settled.


Should I talk to my sister regarding this? I am afraid about how she might react. Should I talk to my husband's cousin?

Please give me suggestions. I want to resolve this. I don't like this because my husband's cousin is 12 years elder to my sister.

I haven't discussed this issue with my husband. Should I talk to him first?

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Nov 20, 2009
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let her know
by: Anonymous

In my opinion, you should talk to her. It's probably just lust anyway but she is still young so let her know the consequences of her actions and if she still does it, then she will get what she asks for. Sorry to say you have to let people make their own mistakes but there is no reason that someone can't try to guide them in the right direction and let them know what could happen if they choose the wrong things.

Keep it between you and her and don't say I told you so. It's just a lesson learned. Ask her how she would feel if it was her husband or if you were being done that way.

Nov 18, 2009
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Keep Silent
by: Penny

No matter what you say your sister will not hear you and speaking to her will only make things worse. She's not a baby, this is her life so let her live it the way she wants to. The experience will do her well. Be there for her when she needs you and she will!

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