Son Told Father I am Mean

by nora e.
(madison, wi )

I have been with this man for 3 years now, but have known him for 9, the other day he came to me and told me he thinks we need to take a break to collect our thoughts.

He also has a son who plays a huge role in all of this. The son has told him that i am mean and cruel to him. All i do is sit in the room and do my school work, and I don't ever talk to him.

This is lie number one, I do, do school work on line everyday in my spare time, the son spends his time playing black ops on his xbox 360 online, or runescape on his computer, I am not into video games of any kind, and I do not have a problem with the 11 year old boy playing them, well except for doing his school work which i help him with. I also watch movies with the child and we talk about school and everything else.

Well that is the reason for needing a break the father also told me he was worried I would hurt his son, I would never do that. When the boy was younger I was the one who babysat him, so basically I have known them for a long time.

I do know for a fact that there is not another woman, I am just confused as to why the son is telling the father these things and why the father is believing them, it is very hard, and yes I have moved out of the home and do speak to the father maybe once a week just to say hi. it is he who calls me. how does one deal with this?

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