The Other Woman

(Catskill, NY)

I am good friends with a guy who I have known for 2 years. Recently, we became comfortable with each other and I became the other woman. He is in a relationship, but told me that he and his girlfriend are slowly breaking up because he will be going to college.

I have developed feelings for him and called it off. But I have a feeling that it will start again. How do I handle this situation to where I know he cannot choose between me and his girlfriend?

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Jan 07, 2010
Drop Him
by: Penny

I have read the other comments and agree totally. Nothing will happen if YOU don't allow it to; it's all up to you. Drop him.

My relationship advice is not to get involved with this guy again because he's bad news emotionally and mentally.

Jan 06, 2010
To the Other Woman
by: Anonymous

I am now in that same position but I am the wife and my ex friend is the other woman. Don't let him do that to you because if she's anything like me, she won't stop fighting for whats what is hers no matter what.

In my case, the girl, Cheryal, doesn't care that we have a daughter and 4 grandbabies that love and miss their papa.

No matter what, I will never stop fighting to get my husband back and will never give her one moment of peace as long as she's in between him and me.

Good luck to you, but find someone who loves and adores you like I do my husband. Don't let any man put you through hell.

The only reason I'm fighting is because of 27 years of being together and our grandbabies want their papa. Good luck, honey.

Jan 05, 2010
Don't walk, RUN!
by: Anonymous

Do not put yourself in a position to be used for his pleasure. Believe me, that is all that it is. Slowly breaking up will never happen. If he cheats on her, you know that he will cheat on you. Be strong enough to love yourself enough and value your emotions because he does not care.

You sound like all you want is to be loved. A guy like this is not who will love you, he will just use you as long as he can.

God Bless you and keep you, I hope that you learn to love yourself.

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