Torn between Two Boys

by Peyton Grey
(USA)

I'm a sophomore in high school and I am attracted to senior boys more than anything and I fall for the type of guys that are dealing with some sort of trial. I met a guy named Hayden in 8th grade and we were on and off for a couple years. Everything seems perfect when he and I are together.


We are best friends and have great times together. We know that we can come to each other for anything.

A girl on my volleyball team went for a guy named Andre. One day we all went to lunch just us three and from that day on, Andre and I have liked each other. We have texted non stop for three months and have gotten close. he is the sweetest guy I have ever met and always cares about the littlest things about me and treats me with more respect than any teenage boy ever has. He is an amazing person inside and out, but the other day, he told me what he has done with the girl on my volleyball team.

This made me so upset, I haven't looked at either of them the same since. I guess I could say that I'm in love with Andre over texting. I get so nervous in person even though we have talked a couple times. I'm starting to get my feelings back that I had for Hayden and I miss our kisses and long talks and I just need a friend to help me with what I'm going through in my life right now.

I can see myself with both of these guys, but I don't know what to do!

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Mar 21, 2009
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Slow down
by: Latrice

You are 16 or 17 at the most. Why are you trying to move so fast? You sound like you're 25 already. The emotions you are experiencing right now seem so mature. But about the time you turn 25 to 30, you will be experiencing mature real love with someone else.

Not to say young teenage love can't last but it usually doesn't. Slow down and breathe. The guy you're texting is showing you that if you were his girl, he is not to be trusted. Regardless if there was an attraction, he should have not taken it to another level by starting to text you.

If he really cared, he would have broken it off with his girl and asked you to be his. This is what adults deal with all the time. A married person started having a affair just because the other person looked good to them at the time.

Don't start out like that it might become a pattern for you. If you care about your boyfriend, work on your relationship. If not, let him go. Don't pine away for another girl's cheating boyfriend. If and when you get in her position, there will be another girl that will come along. Trust me, I know.

Mar 21, 2009
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That is tough
by: Anonymous

Wow, Peyton! I've had the same problem before. I eventually had to leave both of them and figure out what I really deserved and needed in my life. It sounds like you are desperate and just want a boyfriend or a friend in your life. There is nothing wrong with that, but that's hard.

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