Very Confused

I am 43 yrs old and I live in a apartment complex. About six months ago I met someone who lives in the same complex as me. I really started to like him,and we started talking,the only thing is that he is divorced and living with his ex. He told me that she had cheated on him in their 30-yr marriage.

I know that he cares for me, but I never get to spend the time I want to with him. He has been at my house and we have messed around but never have had sex yet. I care about him a lot, but for the last week now, I feel like he is pulling away from me and I don't know why.

I texted him today telling him I needed to talk to him, but have heard nothing. I don't want to give him up at all, but it is really getting to me.


He told me they don't sleep in same bed anymore and she said they don't have sex at all. He told me he just wanted to be loved, but how can anybody love him if he want let them? will he leave the ex or will he stay with her?

Do I need to let it go and move on?