What Do I Do?

I am a 16 soon to be 17 year old girl. I am in a 1 year relationship with a boy who I love so very much, but I have been hearing rumors that he has this other little girl that he's seeing on the side.


When I ask him about it, he always denies it. One day, I walked to the bus he was on and I saw him and the girl face to face. He said that he was trying to get her out of his face, I believed him and left it at that.

But I keep hearing these same rumors. The girl is saying that they do mess around, but he's saying they don't.

I have met this other guy and he is so sweet. He tells me I'm beautiful all the time. This guy and my boyfriend have had a few altercations where they almost got into fight. Actually, they did get into a fight once, but that was way before I knew either of them.

I'm really feeling this guy on a whole different level as to where I'm almost to the point of leaving my boyfriend for him. (We dated once before for 3 months.)

What am I supposed to do? Should I stay with my boyfriend who I constantly hear rumors about or should I leave him and get with the other guy?

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Apr 21, 2009
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Don't Leave
by: christina

Don't leave your man over a rumor because rumors are spread by haters and we have haters because there's some thing to hate on. Don't do anything without proof, especailly if you love him and if you do, you wouldn't believe any rumors.

Apr 20, 2009
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I Appreciate the Advice
by: Anonymous

I really appreciate the advice y'all gave me, but it's so hard to let this boy go! I mean, every time I make up in my mind to leave him, I never do!

I ask him about the things I have heard about him and he always fixes his lie up and talks all sweet like, "Baby, you know who I'm with, so that's all that matters" or "Girl, I love you too much to hurt you" and I always fall weak for it. I hate that I do that, but I think I'm gonna really leave him this time.

Apr 19, 2009
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Be wise
by: Anonymous

First of all if your ole boy is cheating, leave him where he at. Love won't help you if he gives you an STD that's incurable. Take it slow with this new guy, don't leave the old to jump into something that is or isn't what it seems.

You're seventeen. Slow down and live life. Just be wise, okay. God bless you.

Apr 19, 2009
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Move On
by: Anonymous

Doesn't matter who you will be with, leave that guy.

Apr 19, 2009
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" Slow Down And Think About It "
by: Penny

First of all the guy you call your boyfriend is cheating on you. You saw it with your own eyes, believe what you saw, and the girl you saw him with is saying there is something going on between him and her. Put this together against what he said. What more do you need?

This new guy comes along, telling you what you want to hear and just happens to be your ex's enemy. You don't know if this new guy really wants you or is using you to rub this in your ex's face; remember they are enemies. This isn't to say the new guy isn't for real, but be careful and watchful.

Apr 19, 2009
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Leave your Boyfriend
by: PeytonGrey

I know exactly how you feel. Teenage guys never seem to tell the whole truth. only what you want to hear. You've confronted him before a few times and all of a sudden, he doesn't have the balls to tell you the truth after a year?

Definitely go for the guy you actually feel okay with. Truth be told the rumors probably are real and your boyfriend doesn't want you to be hurt so he's lied to you about it instead. He apparently doesn't realize how much more this hurts you.

You need to end it and go with the other guy. That way, once your boyfriend realizes how much he had and how much he took you for granted, he will stop whatever he's doing with that girl. But he might not. At least you'll be happy and be with someone who will treat you right.

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