What Does She Really Want
My girlfriend of 8 years broke up with me when she met someone else 3 months ago. They have been dating since. There has been infidelity from both of us but we started to move on, or at least I thought so.
She said she doesn't trust she would be the only woman for me and only sees herself getting hurt. Anyway, for the first couple months I did all the wrong techniques, always texting, begging, calling, etc. She admitted a month ago that she has been exclusive with this person starting a couple weeks after we broke up.
In the last month, we rarely spoke. Maybe once a week, we talk for a half hour or text back and forth. Now she is saying that she doesn't know exactly what she wants, is still so in love with me, but says she has gone so far with this other person that she doesn't think things would ever be the same between us.
Also, she really does have feelings for this person and doesn't want to end it with him because she doesn't want to hurt him. So instead of figuring things out on her own, she is continuing to see him which is only going to make her forget me.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.