What Should I Do?

by Marissa
(Grand Island)

Should my boyfriend be talking to his ex-girlfriend? My boyfriend cheated on me before with the same girl and we went through some tough times with that. All of a sudden, he started talking to her again online. I am kinda worried because I don't really trust him talking to her anymore because of what has happened in the past. We have been dating for 10 months and I just wanted to know if it was right if he was talking to his ex-girlfriend again after everything that has happened? What should I do about this?







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May 16, 2008
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Trust issue
by: Anonymous

First, of all he if truly loved you ...then he would have NEVER cheated on you! Maybe, he knows he made a mistake....if you are willing to be with him and try again...then he will have to earn your trust! Honestly, earning your trust does not include him to talk to the girl he cheated with!!! But, if you love him that much...to stay with him and try....because we ARE only human...everyone makes mistakes.....then you CAN NOT be accusing him of "seeing her". This will be something that will take time.......time to earn trust and respect! Honestly, if he loves you like he says then he WOULD NOT BE TALKING TO HER NOW!!!!

Mar 20, 2008
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Think About It
by: Anonymous

Marissa, personally I would have to TRUST him not to talk to her. I have been in the same predicament where my boyfriend was talking to this girl who he'd been dating. He used to tell me that nothing was going on between him and her. Come to find out they were dating. Now she can't stand him. The best way to find out is to set him up like me and the mistress did. Now our LOVE is stronger than before!

Mar 09, 2008
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RE
by: Anonymous

If you truly love him, then you should trust him. But you shouldn't trust her. Keep your eyes open. Tell him how you feel. I think that if he loves you, then he should respect your decision.

Good luck!

Mar 06, 2008
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I Wish I Knew
by: Anonymous

I wish I knew ... I'm kinda going through the same thing right now. It's really hard ... I know how you feel.

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