I know what you are going through... Because the same thing is happening to me... I have a low self esteem I feel like I'm ugly and fat... And as a result I don't have many friends and now I'm 19 years old and I've never had a boyfriend... But the other day I went to an alltell store and saw the cutest guy...& I fell in love.. but I'm so scared to tell him how I really feel...I'm scared to get rejected because I feel like he's too good for me...
Aug 29, 2010 Rating
Dont feel that you're not special by: Khadija ally
Don't worry sweetie, we all love you.
Aug 25, 2010 Rating
Don't be insecure by: Amanda
Sweetie, you are a very cute girl. You remind me of my niece who is now 17. You look like you have some curves, so does my oldest girl, she is 9. I remember being 13 and having curves too. It came in especially handy at my 8th grade graduating dance when the boys finally saw that I looked better in my dress than the beanpole girls. I was very insecure at your age, all girls are, even the skinny ones, trust me. I was insecure all through high school too. Know what it gets you? A life of being insecure. I will tell you that no one will ever love you more than God and yourself. So YOU need to love yourself, and when you do, there is no limit to the "hot" guys that will look at you. Now I'm 33 and have had kids. I'm not skinny by any means, but I have to show my girls that you love who you are because that's what is important. You are very pretty, so if you act like you are secure and be yourself, he will notice you.
Aug 23, 2010 Rating
i WISH YOU YOUNG LADIES WOULD TAKE MY ADVICE by: THERESA
I know how you must feel I was a very insecure 13year old ,but if you really want things to change for you then listen up: guys really don't like when a girl is insecure it bothers them and what you think is attractive to a guy like some skinny girl you are so wrong trust me men prefer girls that are more shapely boys like it when you are sure of yourself so if need be fake your security I'm not saying that you have to be someone else just act like you are sure of yourself put a smile on that pretty face of yours and believe in your self you will see others will believe in you to when you do.
