Why Can't I Walk Away?

by Boriqua
(New Haven CT)

Why Can't I Walk Away?


I'm confused whether staying with my fiancé is really best for me or if I'm better off walking away. I mean I love him to death but the way things have been going lately it doesn't seem like were getting nowhere.

I mean all we do is argue everyday. We just go off about the smallest things and usually that ends in us breaking up. Then we get back together only to fall into the same routine again.
And like when we argue we always say things that should never be said.

Also another thing that makes me think we won't last is that he doesn't show me he cares as much as he says he does. And that bothers me because I'm been telling him for the longest to show me he cares but he just won't instead he is constantly hurting me and making me cry.

I've told him time after time that if he can't change then we can't be together but I don't think he takes me serious.

I don't know what to do no more. Because I don't want to walk away but I dot see how I can possibly stay and continue to deal with this. Sometimes I just feel like he doesn't love me as much as he says he does.

Maybe I'm just in way over my head trying to fix things. It don't seem he WANTS to change for me so I don't know why I can't walk away.

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Jan 31, 2011
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by: Anonymous

You shouldn't expect someone to change for you. Maybe you are the one who has changed or needs to change but that change has to be for you not for anyone else.

Sit back and think of why you fell in love with him and dig deep to see if those qualities are still there.

Good luck.

Oct 08, 2010
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Actions speak louder than words!

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