Ummm... I know you want to find the answer to get him back but truthfully the real answer is you just have to move on. I really dont know of any better advice to give you... The way i got over it is a person better than the last loves me for me and he knows how to express it he knows how to treat me like a person... Honey maybe its time for you to just realize its time to move on and i wish you bunches of luck because honestly its the hardest thing you can and should ever do... You should always think about whats right for you in a situation like this... Just know theres someone better for you and that they are out there somewhere and you destined to find them... Just move on...
Feb 04, 2011 Rating
if you.. by: Anonymous
find the answer, please let me know. exact same situation. been on and off for four years now. we just ended last friday with my dad calling a harrasment charge on him and his parents doing the same to me :/ but all i want is him back... and i don't know why :( so if you find the answer to this, pleaseee let me know!
Dec 28, 2010 Rating
i am just like you by: tx
i have been through that same thing. it sucks... i had loved this boy for three yrs and he always would ask out my best friends and still say that he loved me, but one day he completely blew me off to be w/ one on my friends and i realized that i didnt need him anymore and i finally was happy:)
Dec 14, 2010 Rating
WOW by: Anonymous
I know how you feel. My and this guy were in a relationship, that it just happened. We weren't dating anymore. I loved him and wanted him back.
Aug 15, 2010 Rating
listenn by: Anonymous
look i feel you girl i feel you , all i can tell you is that the only reason you want him back is because you were so attatched to him , and use too been with him . but just try to meet other people and you'll see you will get so over him , that he'll be begging for YOU back .
Aug 10, 2010 Rating
I hope this makes sense by: Anonymous
oh my goodness i have/had your exact situation and i didn't get why i wanted him back so bad then i discovered it was because he was my security blanket and going through life without your security blanket wen you've had it for so long is really scary and hard at first but it gets easier and you find even better guys who you always want to be with and not break it off every too seconds good luck i know it sucks at first :)
May 20, 2010 Rating
i understand. by: Anonymous
I know exactly how you feel. This is the EXACT same situation I'm in right now. I've been on & off with the same guy for 4 years, we broke up, for good.. But now all I want is him back in my arms. I would LOVE to give you advice, but I don't even have any for myself. Just keep in mind that someone else is going through the same thing & i'll always be here to talk. (:
May 13, 2010 Rating
Wow by: Anonymous
You shouldn't give up. I've been through that and now I have him back. Giving up is never the answer. It was difficult, but worth it.
Apr 19, 2010 Rating
Hunny by: Anonymous
Oh my gosh, I totally know how you feel like....mhmm...stop with the on and off, but try this time to actually keep it...or you could just act like you don't care...eventually you'll get over him. =[
Apr 08, 2010 Rating
Hope everything works out by: Anonymous
Maybe you still want him because you still like him. But maybe it's better if you just try and forget him and find someone better. It'll be hard and you might not want to, but that might be best.
