"You cant get mad for me wanting to spend time with someone else..."
by The unfortunate one
I am a 25 yr old stay at home mom of 2 little boys and a house wife. My husband and i have been together since we were 16. Recently my husband decided that he had to start going out with his coworkers for drinks after work, little did i know that one of his coworkers was an 18 yr old with a fake ID.
Well the first time i found out he was drinking with her was when he got a surprise from my little cousin who the 18 yr old had snuck into the bar. I talked to him about this, said i wasnt comfortable with him going to bars with her. He said he wouldnt. the whole time i should have known something was going on, he was so short tempered with me and the boys.
one day he actually said, "I dont know why but i cant stand the 3 of you right now." Back to the tale... the next time he went out with her i had my suspicions but couldnt prove anything (he later admitted to it) the last time he tried to be smooth. when he was home on his break from work, he told me he would be late. he usually gets done with work around 730 so i figured ok, he will be home around 830-9 but noooo.... not only did he stay out as long as possible he came home, parked his car and left in her vehicle for an hour and when he saw me waiting outside to confront him he had her drive away twice... his drunken excuse was she was fun and interesting and different she didnt talk about the kids and how could i be mad at him for wanting to spend time with someone else....